attracting women online

5 Scientifically Proven Ways to Attract Women Online

By Joshua Pompey

attracting women online


Attracting women online is a whole lot easier than you think.  It’s simply a matter of learning what women are wired to respond to, and then tapping into as many of those qualities as you can in your photos, profile writing, and emails.


Once you learn how to do this properly, you’ll be able to build attraction with any woman, regardless of the looks you were born with.  In this article I am going to discuss five surefire ways to spark attraction with women online, all backed by science.

1. Demonstrating Alpha Male Qualities


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The alpha male is the leader of the pack.  He’s the man that knows how to take charge, is capable of making decisions, and when he wants something, he goes after it and gets it.


The alpha also demonstrates supreme confidence, is in control of his emotions, knows how to dress, is physically fit, and although he has doubts at times, he doesn’t live in this doubts.


Men want to be the alpha male and women want to be with the alpha male.  It’s that simple.  Demonstrate some of the above qualities and women will be the ones chasing you online for dates.


2.   Demonstrating supreme confidence


demonstrating confidence


This is something we hear all the time, but why exactly are women attracted to confidence?  On a biological and evolutionary level, confidence communicates to a woman that he is able to take care of her and can ensure her survival.


This may not apply to the modern world the same way it did in primitive times, but women are still wired to feel attracted towards men who demonstrate this quality.


Aside from the scientific angle, being confident communicates that you know you are worth being around, and in turn, others will want to be around you as well.  On the other hand, demonstrating a lack of confidence is indirectly telling a woman that she can do better than you.


While pictures can certainly convey confidence (body language, clothes, facial expressions), the words you choose when you write your profile and craft your emails will be extremely revealing as to how high or low your confidence is.  The successful online dater is confident at all times.


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3.  Being a Protector


man who is a protector


Protectors communicate that they are able to take care of loved ones and protect the relationships in their life.  This includes friends, family, and animals.


The ability to show you are a protector can come in many forms (i.e., monetarily, strength, loyalty) and will communmicate that you are a man, not a boy.


From a scientific perspective, women are attracted to protectors because mating with a protector throughout the history of mankind ensured the best chance of survival.  This instinct remains intact to this day.


4.  Having a Purpose Greater Than Oneself


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Women respond strongly to men who are passionate about something.  Whether it’s your religion, your humanitarian efforts, or your desire to be the best father you can be, showing that you are willing to step outside of yourself for a greater good is insanely attractive to women.  It also shows that you’re the type of trustworthy man she can open her emotions to and start (or unite) a family with one day.


5.  Communicating Drive and Ambition


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Men with drive don’t sit on the sidelines or waste their lives away on the couch.  They are go-getters.  When they set their sights on something, they work their asses off until those dreams come to fruition.


These are qualities that women are wired to seek out in partners.  It lets them know that they don’t have to worry about a future with you because you are not the type of guy that quits when things get rough or settles for mediocrity.


You are the guy who will build a life that is only going to get better.  You make things happen.


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