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By Joshua Pompey<\/p>\n
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Sure, you could take my advice when it comes to online dating. \u00a0Just search this website and you’ll find plenty of my online dating tips for men. \u00a0But isn’t everything just way more entertaining when it comes from a beautiful woman? \u00a0Let’s just go with that strategy today!<\/p>\n
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I recently sat down with 7 stunning women who currently belong\u00a0to various online dating sites<\/a><\/span>. \u00a0 But these weren’t just any women. \u00a0These were\u00a0women who average over 100 messages a week. \u00a0And guess what? They\u00a0are absolutely dying to find a meaningful relationship online.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Although they refused to marry me despite my claim to superior Joshua Pompey<\/a> genes (I had to try right?), I did manage to receive some really incredible\u00a0feedback from these beautiful women. \u00a0Each of the following women were asked to reveal their best online dating tips for men. Let’s take a look at what they had to say…<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Amy a Match.Com user from Florida’s best online dating tip for men: \u00a0“Use your pictures to show me what you are really<\/em> like”<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n I feel like so many profile pictures are completely lame. \u00a0Don’t just write about what you’re like. \u00a0Prove it. Use your photo gallery to show me what you are really like.<\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n When I look at a your pictures I want to know more about you than what you look like. The last thing I want to see is what you and your bathroom mirror look like with some lame selfie. \u00a0I want to know what your friends are like. \u00a0What you like to do for fun? \u00a0Are you going to\u00a0sit on the couch all day or travel the world with me?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n McKenzie a Match.Com user from California’s best online dating tip for men: \u00a0\u201cI don\u2019t want to be pen pals.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n What is it with all the men on these sites that will send out dozens of emails without asking me out!\u00a0 I can’t even deal. \u00a0<\/span>Sometimes I take matters into my own hands and give out my number to avoid emailing for a weeks on end.<\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Call me old fashioned, but as a woman, I don\u2019t want to be the aggressor. \u00a0 <\/span>Guys, if I\u2019m responding for days, it means I\u2019m interested! \u00a0 <\/span>Ask me for my number after a few emails and let\u2019s take the conversation to an actual date.<\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Amanda an OkCupid user from New Jersey’s best online dating tip for men: “Stop telling me what a\u00a0great guy you are and show me instead with your actions.”<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n \u00a0I\u2019m sorry if this sounds mean, but when you message me with a long list of reasons of why I should date you, you sound like you are begging me for a date.\u00a0 \u00a0That’s not a turn on! \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Stop telling me what a\u00a0great guy you are in your first email and show me instead with your actions. If you want to show me that you are worth getting to know than just be interesting and I’m sure I’ll realize.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Ann Marie, an OkCupid user from Louisiana’s best online dating tip for men: \u00a0\u201cI am\u00a0not going to take you seriously if you write like a 5 year old.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n The other day I came across this super hot, successful looking guy. But he\u00a0had a profile filled with careless errors that even my 9 year old nephew wouldn\u2019t make.<\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n I\u2019m sorry but if you aren\u2019t even taking the time to proof read your profile, I’m just going to assume you are a lazy deadbeat. I just can’t take you seriously if you my little nephew writes better than you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Kirsten, A Plenty Of Fish user from Denver’s best online dating tip for men: \u00a0“Don\u2019t try to run game on me.\u00a0 You’re not fooling anyone!<\/span>\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n I swear, I think some men just google online dating pick up lines and paste the first line they see to every women they encounter.\u00a0 Do these men even read half the ridiculous lines they write?! \u00a0\u00a0<\/span>I\u2019ve once received the same\u00a0insane line about\u00a0rubbing avocado all over\u00a0my body from two separate men in a month!\u00a0\u00a0 Can we say crazy?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Then there are the wannabe pick up artists who come across as completely lame and disingenuous.\u00a0 Don’t try to run game on me<\/span>.\u00a0 You’re not fooling anyone! \u00a0<\/span>Just be interesting and stop trying to be someone you aren\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Evelyn, A Match.Com user from Edmonton’s best online dating tip for men: \u00a0“Please please please make me laugh!”<\/strong><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Please don\u2019t just say what\u2019s up in your opening email.\u00a0 <\/span>I\u2019m sure you are totally a nice guy, but I will never respond to an email like that.\u00a0 <\/span>It\u2019s beyond boring.\u00a0 <\/span>If you are funny, then you are ridiculously more likely to receive a response.\u00a0Please please please make me laugh! \u00a0 I will be so grateful.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Theresa a J-date user from New York’s best online dating tip for men: \u00a0“Do I look like a prostitute to you?\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n It amazes me how many men seem like nice guys, then 2\u00a0emails later or in a text message, start hinting at a one night stand.\u00a0\u00a0Umm. \u00a0Gross.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0 Do I look like a prostitute to you? \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n I\u2019m perfectly capable of finding someone to \u201ctake me places I\u2019ve never been\u201d without having an online stranger\u2019s assistance.\u00a0 <\/span>Thanks but no thanks.\u00a0 <\/span>Please don\u2019t proposition me for a hookup when I am clearly online to find a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Well, you’ve heard from the women out there. \u00a0Now it’s time to start making the necessary adjustments…<\/strong><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n For a completely free online dating profile evaluation, claim your spot here<\/a><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n To read plenty of more free online dating advice, just visit this page<\/a><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n
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