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{"id":2343,"date":"2017-05-25T23:12:38","date_gmt":"2017-05-25T23:12:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/?page_id=2343"},"modified":"2017-11-14T13:28:36","modified_gmt":"2017-11-14T13:28:36","slug":"how-to-start-conversations-on-a-dating-site-with-women","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/how-to-start-conversations-on-a-dating-site-with-women\/","title":{"rendered":"How to start conversations on a dating site with women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row row_type=&#8221;row&#8221; use_row_as_full_screen_section=&#8221;no&#8221; type=&#8221;full_width&#8221; angled_section=&#8221;no&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; background_image_as_pattern=&#8221;without_pattern&#8221; css_animation=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h2>How To Start Conversations On A Dating Site With\u00a0300% Higher Response Rates<\/h2>\n<p>By Joshua Pompey<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-2417\" src=\"http:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/14-13.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"568\" height=\"320\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/14-13.jpg 750w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/14-13-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/14-13-700x394.jpg 700w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/14-13-539x303.jpg 539w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 568px) 100vw, 568px\" \/>[<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>You know what I hate just about more than anything? \u00a0Wasting time. \u00a0There&#8217;s so many better things I could be doing.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Chasing my lifetime goal of eating the world&#8217;s biggest sandwich. \u00a0Contemplating why ice coffee cost more than regular. \u00a0Trying to figure out why cat&#8217;s are terrified of cucumbers.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Okay maybe those are bad examples of time productive activities. \u00a0But if you haven&#8217;t seen youtube videos of cat&#8217;s terrified by cucumbers, I strongly urge you to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=cNycdfFEgBc\">click here now<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Back from the cat videos? \u00a0No need to thank me but you are welcome! \u00a0Now let&#8217;s get serious and talk about why you are really here.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you feel like you&#8217;ve been wasting your time writing emails and don&#8217;t know how to start conversations on a dating site with women online, don&#8217;t worry because you are in great hands.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>My average clients response rates go up well over 300% after working with me and today I am going to outline\u00a0step by step how to\u00a0we about starting conversations on dating sites with 15 of my most important tips.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h2>How to start conversations on a dating site<\/h2>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#331e1e&#8217; thickness=&#8217;2&#8242; up=&#8217;25&#8217; down=&#8217;25&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>1. Keep your message reasonably short.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>We are in an age of almost non-existent attention spans. \u00a0Always keep this in mind when you start conversations with women online.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Your messages should be interesting, but relatively short and to the point. \u00a0An ideal length for the 1st email is 3 to 4 sentences at most. \u00a0On follow up emails you can write\u00a0incrementally more.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>2. \u00a0The structure of your email is extremely important<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>See how this article is written? \u00a0None of these paragraphs take up more than 2 to 3 lines. \u00a0Data shows that people are more likely to read things that are divided into very small paragraphs.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When women open emails that look long and bulky paragraphs, they tend to just skip to the next message. Always make your email easy on the eyes.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>3. \u00a0Write with confidence<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-2374\" title=\"40 year old virgin\" src=\"http:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/meetingwomen.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"461\" height=\"223\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/meetingwomen.jpg 620w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/meetingwomen-300x145.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>Suppose you were to approach a woman at a bar with your head down and said to her, &#8220;So umm, I really think you are beautiful. If you are interested, I really would love to talk to you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Would a beautiful woman who is in high demand want to engage with you? \u00a0No chance. \u00a0The body language and wording shows a complete lack of confidence.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Women love men who ooze confidence and appear to be in high demand so you need to write in a manner that reflects this. \u00a0Avoid phrases such as, &#8220;I hope to hear from you,&#8221; or &#8220;if you are interested,&#8221; and use language that\u00a0reveals you are\u00a0confident.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>4. \u00a0Open with something humorous<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-926\" title=\"Pretty woman smiling on labtop\" src=\"http:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Screen-Shot-2016-10-27-at-9.42.31-AM.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"464\" height=\"251\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Screen-Shot-2016-10-27-at-9.42.31-AM.png 903w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Screen-Shot-2016-10-27-at-9.42.31-AM-300x162.png 300w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Screen-Shot-2016-10-27-at-9.42.31-AM-768x416.png 768w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Screen-Shot-2016-10-27-at-9.42.31-AM-700x379.png 700w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 464px) 100vw, 464px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>Far and away the best way to receive a response is to just be funny. \u00a0Making a woman laugh online will allow you to stand out from the competition, appear more interesting, and make women think you will be a fun first date.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In addition, opening with humor shows that you were willing to put in enough effort to be interesting and make women smile, which will not go un-noticed.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>5. \u00a0Do not try to flatter your way into a response.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>Writing an email about how beautiful a woman is or how perfect she seems may feel like you are being sweet, but this is a highly uneffective approach.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Men and women alike love the thrill of the chase on some level and women are more attracted to men who seem to be in high demand with other women. \u00a0Bending over backwards to compliment a stranger you don\u2019t actually know will only lower your value, and consequently, your ability to attract.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>6. \u00a0Find the biggest commonality you can to focus on<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>Another great approach to starting a conversation on a dating site is to focus on things you both have in common. \u00a0People are usually drawn to other people they have a lot in common with\u00a0so try to make that the focus of your question.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element \">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<p>The more unique the commonality you can find, the better. \u00a0For example, most people love live music. However, if you happen to notice that you both love the\u00a0same band that most people don&#8217;t know about, that is a much more interesting commonality to build off of.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>7. \u00a0COMMENT ON SOMETHING THAT SEEMS REALLY IMPORTANT TO THE OTHER PERSON<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-2388 size-full\" title=\"Woman playing with puppies\" src=\"http:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/puppy_hugs.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"277\" \/>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<div class=\"vc_row wpb_row section vc_row-fluid \">\n<div class=\" full_section_inner clearfix\">\n<div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\">\n<div class=\"vc_column-inner \">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element \">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<p>The truth is, Most peoples favorite topic is themselves. If you spot something in your object of affections profile that he is truly passionate about, make that the focus of your email. \u00a0Dog&#8217;s always work great if you find a dog lover!<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>8. \u00a0Never Just Say Hey, HI, Or What&#8217;s UP<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-2379 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/09cupid_xp-master315.jpg\" alt=\"how are you text\" width=\"315\" height=\"254\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/09cupid_xp-master315.jpg 315w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/09cupid_xp-master315-300x242.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 315px) 100vw, 315px\" \/>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>This is the easiest way to wind up in the delete bin. \u00a0Simply saying hey, hi, or what&#8217;s up is the equivalent of holding up a sign that says, &#8220;\u201cI have absolutely nothing interesting to say,\u201d or \u201cI gave up trying to be interesting because I\u2019m having no success online.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Creativity and effort will go a long way.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>9. \u00a0Don&#8217;t Be Afraid To Be Completely Random<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-2382 size-medium\" title=\"online dating pick up line\" src=\"http:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/master-of-none-dating-aps-netflix-300x225.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/master-of-none-dating-aps-netflix-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/master-of-none-dating-aps-netflix-768x576.png 768w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/master-of-none-dating-aps-netflix-800x600.png 800w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/master-of-none-dating-aps-netflix-700x525.png 700w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/master-of-none-dating-aps-netflix.png 812w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>In an episode of the show <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt4635276\/\">Master of None<\/a> (A Netflix Original), comedian Aziz Ansari tackled online dating as the subject matter. \u00a0His first line on Tinder was, \u201cGoing to Whole Foods, need anything?\u201d \u00a0 It\u2019s silly and harmless, but something like this can be highly effective.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Would I recommend using this? \u00a0Definitely not since it was already on television. \u00a0And it also will appear as if you spammed this out to 100 women. \u00a0If you are going to use a line,\u00a0add something to your email that proves you read her profile. \u00a0But the point is, being random can be a good thing sometimes.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>10. 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When you don\u2019t ask a question, you are putting all the heavy lifting on the other person to think of what to say back.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This drastically reduces the likelihood of a response. \u00a0The easier you make if for a woman\u00a0to write you back, the more likely she\u00a0will.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>11. \u00a0Your Call to action cannot require too much thinking<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-2261\" title=\"brain lifting weights\" src=\"http:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/1-0j8mBPZuHAG_q6nV6Lgguw-298x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"236\" height=\"238\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/1-0j8mBPZuHAG_q6nV6Lgguw-298x300.png 298w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/1-0j8mBPZuHAG_q6nV6Lgguw-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/1-0j8mBPZuHAG_q6nV6Lgguw.png 493w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 236px) 100vw, 236px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>You want your question to make the other person excited to respond. \u00a0But you don&#8217;t want your question to require too much thinking.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For example,\u00a0starting a conversation online by asking a woman what the craziest thing she has ever done in her life might sound fun in theory, but in reality, it requires her to think really hard for a good answer. \u00a0And if she can&#8217;t think of something? \u00a0She&#8217;ll probably just move on.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A better way to ask that question would be, &#8220;Alright Ms. Adrenaline Junkie, I definitely like your sense of adventure. \u00a0Fun question, if you could knock any adventure off your bucket list right now, what would it be and why?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>12. \u00a0The call to action should come at the end of your email<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>Think about the conversations you have in real life. \u00a0You don\u2019t start with a question and <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>then<\/strong><\/span> make a bunch of statements. \u00a0You ask your question, the person responds, and the exchange goes on from there.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Online dating should be no different. \u00a0Always place your question at the end of the email so that it is easiest to spot and easiest to reply to.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>13. \u00a0Never ask more than 1 question per email<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1438\" title=\"woman smiling looking at ipad\" src=\"http:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/6ee22e6534c1fd57a1927954912d9b9c.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"395\" height=\"262\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/6ee22e6534c1fd57a1927954912d9b9c.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/6ee22e6534c1fd57a1927954912d9b9c-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/6ee22e6534c1fd57a1927954912d9b9c-768x510.jpg 768w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/6ee22e6534c1fd57a1927954912d9b9c-700x465.jpg 700w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 395px) 100vw, 395px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>Remember, people have limited attention spans these days. More than one question per email will make it feel like you are giving a homework assignment to the other person. Not to mention, people are very busy these days.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8217;#000000&#8242; thickness=&#8217;1&#8242; up=&#8217;30&#8217; down=&#8217;30&#8217;]<\/p>\n<h3><strong>14. \u00a0Don&#8217;t use wasteful words<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;transparent&#8217; position=&#8217;center&#8217; color=&#8221; thickness=&#8221; up=&#8217;10&#8217; down=&#8217;10&#8217;]<\/p>\n<p>Once again, time is of the essence in the modern era. \u00a0Many\u00a0women get dozens of emails a week, sometimes even per day. \u00a0Make sure your email is interesting, but choose your words wisely and cut out any unnecessary filler.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Each word should have a purpose. \u00a0It might be to make her laugh, connect with you, or spark an attraction. \u00a0But if there\u2019s no purpose to any of the words and they don&#8217;t contribute towards building an emotional connection, then they don\u2019t belong in the email.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8217;normal&#8217; 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