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See that beautiful woman in the picture above?\u00a0 That’s my incredible wife.\u00a0 Believe it or not, she’s even more beautiful on the inside than she is on the outside.\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n

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As you probably guessed from the title of this article, we met on\u00a0OkCupid<\/a>. The second I saw her I crafted a witty message, we began to chat, and the rest was history.<\/span><\/div>\n

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But\u00a0here’s the thing.\u00a0 I wasn’t always an expert at online dating.\u00a0 When I first started online dating over a decade ago, nobody would answer a single email of mine.\u00a0\u00a0But eventually I learned how to get responses at a rate that I couldn’t even keep up with.\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n

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Luckily for you, I’ve already done all the heavy lifting.\u00a0 \u00a0All you have to do is soak up the knowledge.\u00a0 So if you are not getting responses on OkCupid, here’s a little insight into how\u00a0you could right the ship.<\/p>\n

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How to Get Responses On OkCupid<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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1. Learn How To Spark Attraction Properly\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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There is an entire science to building attraction.\u00a0 But the basics are fairly simple. <\/span><\/div>\n\n
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As men, a woman’s physical appearance is what sparks the most attraction in us.\u00a0 Qualities such as healthy skin, a curvy body, nice hair, and great smile will\u00a0create an instant chemical reaction.<\/span><\/div>\n
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Women are also wired to respond to a man’s physical appearance.\u00a0 But luckily, this plays a much\u00a0less of a dominant role in the grand scheme of things.<\/p>\n
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Females\u00a0are instinctively attracted much more\u00a0to a man’s internal qualities\u00a0and personality traits than to a man’s physical appearance. Examples of internal qualities that spark attraction are confidence, humor, and social value.<\/p>\n
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I have found that there are 10\u00a0fundamental traits\u00a0that are extremely effective\u00a0at sparking an attraction and\u00a0unlimited ways to apply them online.\u00a0Once you learn what these triggers are and infuse them into every aspect of your online dating life, you will be able to spark an instant attraction with just about any woman.<\/p>\n
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2. Get More Responses By\u00a0Taking The Focus Off Your Looks<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Suppose I posted several pictures of myself standing alone,\u00a0coupled with a 3 sentence profile that is filled with cliches.\u00a0 Any woman who arrives at my profile is only going to focus on my looks.<\/span><\/p>\n
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Why?\u00a0 Because I haven’t done anything else to spark attraction.\u00a0 Remember, focusing on internal qualities that spark attraction is the key to success.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n
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I haven’t created demand for myself.\u00a0 I haven’t made her laugh.\u00a0 I haven’t shown drive.\u00a0 I haven’t demonstrated social value.\u00a0 Etc.\u00a0 Unless I am ridiculously good looking,\u00a0no woman on OkCupid is going to respond to me!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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But suppose I post a photo gallery that shows me with friends and family, on random adventures, and engaged in various hobbies.\u00a0 Let’s take that a step further and combine it with a profile that makes women laugh, exudes confidence, and shows the drive and diversity that any woman would want to settle down with.<\/p>\n
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Suddenly my looks will matter a whole lot less.\u00a0 The\u00a0more you focus on sparking attraction in ways that have nothing to do with your looks, the less your birth looks will matter.<\/p>\n
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The less physically attractive you are, the more important it is\u00a0amplify\u00a0your best\u00a0internal qualities\u00a0even more.\u00a0 In\u00a0my course series, The Joshua Pompey Process<\/a> you can learn countless ways to accomplish this.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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3. Use The Unique Format Of OkCupid To Your Advantage<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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One of the great things about OkCupid is that it provides some very unique opportunities to be creative with\u00a0your profile.\u00a0 Sections\u00a0such as, “6 things I could never live without,” or “The first thing people usually notice about me,” provide a lot of opportunity for humor.<\/p>\n
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Sure you could go the serious route with these sections, but nothing attracts women more than humor on a dating site.\u00a0 Just about every\u00a0woman I ever dated online, including my wife,\u00a0told me that the reason they went out with me was because my profile was\u00a0hysterical and\u00a0that my email\u00a0made them laugh.<\/p>\n
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Are those the only reasons women went out with me?\u00a0 No.\u00a0 Nor do we want our entire profiles to be jokes.\u00a0 There needs to be a balance.\u00a0 But if I were to rank all the qualities that build attraction, humor\u00a0might be\u00a0at the top of the list.<\/p>\n
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4. You Need To Look The Part<\/strong><\/p>\n
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I bet if you were to look at the picture of me at the top of this page you’d think I’m a pretty\u00a0stylish guy huh?\u00a0 The truth\u00a0is, I have no sense of style.\u00a0 My friend who works at a suit shop dressed me for the day from head to toe.\u00a0\u00a0If I wanted to create photos for an online photo gallery, I would have him pick out the clothes for all my pictures.<\/p>\n
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Why?\u00a0 Because\u00a0woman\u00a0on OkCupid will make a lot of judgements about your appearance, even if those thoughts aren’t conscious.\u00a0 Not only will the right style make you look exponentially more attractive, but dressing well will show\u00a0a woman that she\u00a0can proudly walk with you amongst her friends and family.<\/p>\n
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Dressing well also reveals that you have it together, know how to take care of yourself, possess alpha male qualities, and for lack of a better description, are a cool guy.\u00a0 I know, I know, there’s nothing cool about how I just explained that.\u00a0 But you get the point.<\/p>\n
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In addition, getting yourself in proper shape is extremely important.\u00a0 Is this a deal breaker?\u00a0 Definitely not.\u00a0 But it always helps.<\/p>\n
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If you can’t even take care of yourself, is a woman instinctively going to feel that you can take care of her and a family one day?\u00a0 In addition, showing that you take care of your body\u00a0taps into multiple internal qualities that women are instinctively attracted to – most notably, that you are an alpha.<\/p>\n
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5. The 3 Pillars\u00a0Must Stand Strong<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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There are 3 pillars to a successful online dating life.\u00a0 The photos, the profile writing, and the email writing.\u00a0\u00a0If the foundation on one\u00a0of these is weak, you will inevitably fail to get responses on OkCupid.\u00a0 There’s just too much noise and competition online to have any weaknesses.<\/span><\/div>\n
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As much as I wish I could teach you how to perfect these 3 pillars in 10 minutes or less, this will require a little\u00a0homework or outsourcing on your end.\u00a0 You’ll\u00a0either have to educate yourself by reading some more of my free articles,\u00a0 download\u00a0The Joshua Pompey Process<\/a>, or enlist some professional profile help<\/a> to set\u00a0things up for you.<\/p>\n
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Regardless of whether or not you invest in the process financially or if you embark on your education for free, make the effort to perfect these 3 Pillars of success.\u00a0 When you do so at the highest level, your response rate on OkCupid will explode. [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n
Need a little professional help getting responses on OkCupid?<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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The Joshua Pompey Process comes with over 9 courses that you can instantly download.\u00a0 These are filled with all the tools you will ever need to attract even the highest quality women online.\u00a0 Click here to learn more<\/a><\/p>\n
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If you’d like to have one of the best profiles on the Internet and really stand out from the competition, my profile writing team has been helping men and women at a success rate of over 99% since 2009.\u00a0 Learn more here<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Not Getting Responses On OkCupid?<\/h1>\n