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How Long Should You Wait To Online?\u00a0<\/b><\/h1>\n

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One of the more frequent questions I\u2019m asked is, \u201cHow long should I wait to reply on online?\u201d \u00a0The answer to that question will vary, depending on the dating platform you are using, as well as the person you are talking to.\u00a0 While there is no one size fits all answer, below are\u00a0some important guidelines you should follow.<\/div>\n

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Responding on desktop oriented sites<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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When dealing with sites\u00a0such as Match.com, Eharmony, and Elite Singles<\/a>\u00a0that lean\u00a0more towards desktop use, one or two replies per day is usually sufficient.<\/p>\n

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Most men and women using these platforms typically don\u2019t\u00a0check their messages\u00a0all day long, so you can wait a reasonable amount of time prior to responding.\u00a0 In addition,\u00a0messages sent on these sites are\u00a0generally\u00a0lengthier than messages sent on swiping platforms.\u00a0 For all these reasons, one or two emails per day is the right balance of showing interest, but not appearing too over eager.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n

Response time on Swiping Oriented APPS<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Dating Apps that are specifically\u00a0geared towards\u00a0the phone require a bit more attention.\u00a0 Since the platforms lean more towards texting style interactions, the\u00a0messages will be much briefer.<\/p>\n

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Just as you wouldn’t wait a full day to respond to a text, you wouldn’t\u00a0wait a full day on a dating APP either.\u00a0 \u00a0You will have to be much more active and engaged throughout the day.\u00a0 If you don’t have the time for this, swiping platforms are not for you.<\/p>\n

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So how long should you wait before responding on a dating APP?\u00a0 As a rule of thumb,\u00a0\u00a0try to mirror the response rate of\u00a0the woman\u00a0you are engaging with. \u00a0For example, if\u00a0she\u00a0is responding every hour or so,\u00a0respond approximately every hour.\u00a0\u00a0If she is responding\u00a0three or four times a day, follow a similar pattern.<\/p>\n

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In the event that you are on a desktop oriented site, but\u00a0she is responding in a manner that\u00a0comes across more like texting,\u00a0follow this swiping APP approach.<\/p>\n

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Will responding multiple times a day make me look desperate?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Only if you are responding\u00a0immediately after\u00a0she\u00a0messages you. \u00a0You don\u2019t want to appear as if you lurk on your dating APPS all day long.\u00a0 Nor do you want to appear as if you are just waiting for her message all day long.<\/p>\n

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With that said, times have changed and people move quicker then ever on dating sites.\u00a0 If you take too long to respond in a misguided effort to not\u00a0appear desperate,\u00a0it may just backfire and send her looking for someone who seems a bit more engaged.<\/p>\n

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Looking for a little more professional help with your emailing?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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My 9 course series is filled with information that will help you to achieve incredible success with online dating, including 2 courses that are entirely\u00a0dedicated to\u00a0art of writing emails. \u00a0To learn more about how you can download these e-books, completely risk free,\u00a0click here now<\/a>.\u00a0 To learn more about my incredible profile writing service, visit this page<\/a>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n

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