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By Joshua Pompey[\/vc_column_text][vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″][vc_column_text]![\"woman](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/unnamed.jpg\" "\\"woman")
[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″][vc_column_text]Having insanely attractive photos doesn’t mean you have to be an insanely attractive guy.<\/p>\n
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Thanks to evolutionary wiring, our ability to attract women has much more to do with our internal qualities and personality traits than the looks we were born with.<\/p>\n
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All we have to do is learn\u00a0the qualities that women are instinctively attracted to, and then infuse them into every facet of our dating lives.<\/p>\n
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Today we are going to focus on the types of photos that will help<\/a> you to spark\u00a0attraction with women online.\u00a0 As you read this article, I want you to remember every\u00a0picture\u00a0you post is an\u00a0OPPORTUNITY\u00a0to build more attraction.\u00a0 It’s your job to take full advantage.\u00a0 With that said, below are the best online dating photos for guys.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Family photos communicate to women that you are loyal, family-oriented, have\u00a0the qualities of a protector (a strong attraction builder), and value the relationships in your life.\u00a0 They provide a visual representation of a man that a woman can feel comfortable settling down with, and maybe even build (or unite) a family of her own with down the road.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Demonstrating that you have a strong circle of friends communicates that people like being around you, and you in turn, enjoy being around others.\u00a0 This demonstrates social value, which is a highly effective attraction builder.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n Ideally, if you can find pictures where you are the focal point of the picture, you will look like the leader (alpha male) and\u00a0your photo will be even more effective.\u00a0 Avoid photos where you look like the beta of the group or are with genetically superior men (taller, more attractive, better dressed, etc.), as this will lower your status.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n These pictures serve multiple purposes.\u00a0 They show that you are worldly (a very attractive quality), they build commonalities (almost everyone likes to travel and commonalities build attraction), and they serve as great photo bait (photos that entice women into initiating a conversation).<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n The alpha male is the ultimate male.\u00a0 He is a man’s man.\u00a0 The guy who can take charge, lead others, and get things done.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n Demonstrating you are an alpha male is communicated in everything from the hobbies you pursue, to the way you stand (shoulders square, held held high), to the confidence in your smile, to the look in your eyes.\u00a0 Any photos that shows you are a confident leader and a man amongst boys are photos that you should be posting.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n What does your best self look like when you are groomed perfectly and wearing your best clothes?\u00a0 There’s a reason the character of James Bond has had such a long lasting sex appeal.\u00a0 Not only is he confident and alpha, but he looks sharp as hell in a suit.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n We don’t necessarily want to post a picture of ourselves in a suit, as it might feel forced and unnatural if you\u00a0don’t already have a picture like this, but\u00a0one picture in an outfit that brings out\u00a0the dapper side of yourself is worth obtaining.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n This communicates that you\u00a0have goals, have the potential to be a protector, and will be able to burden the financial responsibilities\u00a0that come with building a relationship.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n In addition, women want to know that a relationship with you will involve a lot of fun times ahead, along with the financial freedom to experience life to the fullest.\u00a0 Nobody wants to\u00a0jump into a relationship that will instantly be weighed down by financial stress and pinching pennies.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Women are drawn to men who get off the couch and take care of themselves.\u00a0 These photos communicate that you value your health, have some\u00a0ambition, and can commit to things.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n Whether you are a\u00a0marathon runner, a Spartan Race warrior, a casual tennis player, or just enjoy a run of the mill workout a few times a week, revealing any\u00a0desire to stay physically active is a huge asset.\u00a0 And don’t worry,\u00a0the picture above is a bit hyperbolic.\u00a0You certainly don’t have to jump through fire to show you are\u00a0athletic\u00a0(but it sure doesn’t hurt!)!<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n 8.\u00a0 The profile bait photo<\/strong><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n These photos entice someone to send a message based on the context of the picture.\u00a0 Often times a caption can provide tremendous help towards accomplishing this.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n For example, I once posted a picture of me, my dog, my sister, my grandmother, and my nephew all in one picture (depicted above).\u00a0 The caption said, “I paid 10,000 dollars to have this photo engineered in a lab to attract the most beautiful women online.\u00a0 Is it working so far?\u00a0 Confession: I don’t even know these people!”\u00a0\u00a0On average I’d get 10 or more emails a day responding to this picture!<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n When you think about posting (or creating) photo bait, ask yourself, which of these pictures raises the most curiosity or will generate the most conversation?<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Communicating you are funny will exponentially increase your odds of receiving a first date and will instantly raise attraction levels.\u00a0 What woman doesn’t like to laugh?<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n In the\u00a0previous photo bait example, that was my laugh out loud picture.\u00a0 \u00a0Go through your photos and see what silly pictures you have.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n If you can’t find any or can’t think of any, here’s an idea… Find silly pictures that you can photoshop your face onto for comedic value.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n For example, I once had a client who photoshopped his face onto the Marvel character Thor in one picture, onto a man surfing a 50 foot wave in another, and onto a shirtless body builder in the next.\u00a0 The responses were absolute hilarious and it was highly effective, not only as profile bait, but building attraction through humor.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n When you are in photos with other beautiful women, you are tapping into an attraction builder known as pre-selection.\u00a0 Pre-selection is the concept that if other beautiful women want to spend time with you, there must be something about you worth hanging out with.\u00a0 This will make other women want to meet you even more.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n It’s a biological response kicked in by competitive instincts.\u00a0 Just keep in mind that the photo has to appear very natural (action shots work best).\u00a0 If it\u00a0seems like you are trying to show off beautiful women in the photo, you will come across as a douche and it will have the opposite effect of your intentions.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n When it comes down to it, who wouldn’t like to meet someone who knows their way around the kitchen?\u00a0 In addition, these photos communicate that you have some diversity to you, can help out domestically in a relationship, and aren’t tied down to old school\u00a0gender roles.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Dog\u00a0photos make great for great photo bait,\u00a0tap into a strong commonality with other dog\u00a0owners (dog lovers are usually very passionate), and communicate the qualities of someone who is loyal, responsible, committed, and a protector.\u00a0 Just avoid cat photos.\u00a0 I love cats (I grew up with 5!), but if a woman doesn’t know you yet, the single guy with cats will lead to negative pre-conceived judgments.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n 13.\u00a0 1-Upping the dog picture<\/strong><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Before The Tiger King came out on Netflix<\/a>, posting pictures with a baby cub were pretty damn cool!\u00a0 While the culture zeitgeist may have shifted a bit, there’s not doubt that pictures with exotic or unique animals are going to spark attention and serve as excellent profile bait.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n 14.\u00a0 The\u00a0adrenaline\u00a0picture<\/strong><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Whether you’ve been sky-diving, have swam with sharks, of get your\u00a0thrills bungee jumping off of bridges (I personally couldn’t be paid to do any of these things!), showing that you are willing to do these things\u00a0communicates that you are the ultimate alpha male with no fear.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n 15.\u00a0 The unique adventure picture<\/strong><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n For all you ambitious travelers out there who have went on some truly unique adventures (i.e., random villages in Africa, glacier hiking in Iceland), this is the photo for you.\u00a0 Communicating that you are worldly and open to just about anything is very attractive.\u00a0 Show it!<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Studies show that women are\u00a0more drawn to profile pictures\u00a0that depict men in a three quarter angle position as opposed to looking into the camera straight on.\u00a0 This is something you may want to test out in your profile.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n If you are the type of man that volunteers your own time for the benefit of others, you my man, are an incredible guy.\u00a0 And I can promise you, women will think so as well.\u00a0 These types of\u00a0photos tap into several attraction building qualities in the best possible way.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n The more diverse you come across in your pictures, the more interesting you are going to seem.\u00a0 Photos that have the same thematic concept throughout the entire gallery (for example, if they are all athletic) don’t work well because they are only telling one story.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n Communicate with your photos that you are versatile and not easy to place in a box (yes I’m aware how lame that statement just sounded, but it’s true!).\u00a0 The more you deviate from the center, the better.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n What women isn’t attracted to a man that has talent?\u00a0 This shows that you have something special to offer and can provide value that most other guys can’t.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Meeting a guy that is\u00a0fun, intelligent, and handy is the dream for most women.\u00a0 It’s also a very alpha type of picture.\u00a0 If you happen to have any hobbies that reveal this aspect of your personality, definitely post it.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n My name is Joshua Pompey and for over 15 years I\u2019ve been helping online daters connect with high-quality women\u2014achieving a success rate of over 99%. Now, I\u2019m sharing all the wisdom, strategies, and secrets I\u2019ve mastered in my proudest accomplishment yet:\u00a0The Joshua Pompey Masterclass<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Featuring\u00a0six courses and 28 video modules<\/strong>, this masterclass will teach you everything you need to know to dominate dating apps and exceed your wildest expectations.\u00a0Click here to learn more<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”10″ down=”10″]<\/p>\n You can also call us anytime at 888-511-0645 and we’d be happy to chat with you.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n1. Pictures with family<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"family\"](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Modern-Family-Series-Finale-live-stream.jpg\" "\\"family\\"")
<\/p>\n2.\u00a0 \u00a0Pictures with friends<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"photos](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/istockphoto-491712780-612x612.jpg\" "\\"photos")
<\/p>\n3.\u00a0 Vacation photos<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"man](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/guy_on_vacation.jpg\" "\\"man")
<\/p>\n4.\u00a0 Alpha male oriented photos<\/strong><\/h4>\n
![\"joshua](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/1-8-1024x586-1.png\" "\\"alpha")
<\/a><\/p>\n5.\u00a0 The refined photo<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"alpha](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/how-to-be-alpha-male-james-bond-cover-1080x675.jpg\" "\\"alpha")
<\/p>\n6.\u00a0 Accomplishments in the workplace<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"accomplishments](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Happy_workers_at_office_g-stockstudio_Getty_Images.jpg\" "\\"accomplishment")
<\/p>\n7.\u00a0 The\u00a0athletic\u00a0photo<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"spartan](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/spartan_1.5b686fb3b5f51.jpg\" "\\"spartan")
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<\/p>\n9.\u00a0 The laugh out loud funny photo<\/strong><\/h3>\n
<\/a><\/p>\n10.\u00a0 Photos with other beautiful women<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n11.\u00a0 Cooking photos<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"man](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/0_Couple-enjoying-cooking-class-in-kitchen.jpg\" "\\"man")
<\/p>\n12.\u00a0 The\u00a0dog photo<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"man](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/shutterstock_499979275-e1519650419548.jpg\" "\\"man")
<\/p>\n![\"tiger](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/29258015_10156240468179182_544532940382535680_o-1.jpg\" "\\"tiger")
<\/p>\n![\"guy](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/01-skydiving-bucket-list-95414429-2happy-1-1024x683.jpg\" "\\"guy")
<\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n16.\u00a0 The 3 quarter headshot<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"3](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/MarcoD.294-1.jpg-1-979x1024.jpg\" "\\"3")
<\/p>\n17.\u00a0 Charitable photos<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"charity](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/volunteer-header-1024x512-1024x512.jpg\" "\\"charity")
<\/p>\n18.\u00a0 The variety photos<\/strong><\/h3>\n
![\"painting](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screen-Shot-2020-05-09-at-5.20.46-PM-1024x668.png\" "\\"painting")
<\/p>\n19.\u00a0 Demonstrating talent<\/h3>\n
![\"playing](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/30673439_ml-1024x680.jpg\" "\\"playing")
<\/p>\n20.\u00a0 \u00a0The Handy Photo<\/h3>\n
![\"man](\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/woodworking-e1513280561578.jpg\" "\\"handy")
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