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No Replies On Dating Sites?\u00a0 4 Reasons\u00a0Critical Reasons\u00a0You Are Struggling<\/b><\/h1>\n

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By Joshua Pompey<\/p>\n

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In this article Joshua Pompey examines four of the\u00a0most common reasons that you aren’t receiving replies on dating sites.[\/vc_column_text][vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″][vc_column_text]\"online<\/p>\n

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Not receiving any replies on dating\u00a0sites can be an emotionally crippling experience.\u00a0 Take it from me, I’ve been there.<\/p>\n

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Long before I developed a reputation as the best online dater in the world, I went months receiving no responses to my messages.\u00a0 It was absolutely devastating.\u00a0\u00a0I began online dating with high hopes and left with severe depression and feelings of complete inadequacy.<\/p>\n

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The good news is, once I took the time to figure out\u00a0WHY women weren’t responding to my messages, online dating became my own personal playground.\u00a0 That is of course, until I met my beautiful wife!\u00a0 Today I’d like to share four of the biggest reasons you might not be receiving responses online so that you can get yourself on the right path to success.<\/p>\n

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1.\u00a0 You aren’t disrupting the pattern<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Beautiful women get messaged by an insane amount of men on dating sites.\u00a0 After a while, every profile and message that comes their way starts to feel like nothing more than noise and static.\u00a0 People just weren’t meant to have that many options.<\/p>\n

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In order to overcome this, you have to become a disrupter.\u00a0 Think of yourself as the online dating equivalent of Uber<\/a> trying to put\u00a0the taxi industry out of business, or\u00a0Netflix\u00a0crushing decades of dominance by Blockbuster.<\/p>\n

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You need to show these women something they haven’t seen before.\u00a0 Maybe it’s a provocative profile.\u00a0 Maybe it’s a hook to your profile that is just insanely funny.\u00a0 Maybe it’s an attention grabbing profile picture.\u00a0 Regardless of the path, if you don’t find a way to disrupt the competition, you will\u00a0never get to the destination.<\/p>\n

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2.\u00a0 You are playing the game of looks<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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If you try to win at online dating by playing the game of looks, you will lose.\u00a0 There will always be someone better looking or some\u00a0douchey guy\u00a0with muscles growing out of his muscles.<\/p>\n

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In order to attract women online<\/a>, you need to play the game of attraction from a scientific vantage point.\u00a0 Upon learning the science and psychology\u00a0of attraction, you\u00a0will\u00a0find that\u00a0women experience attraction much differently than men.\u00a0 Women\u00a0respond\u00a0much more to a man’s internal qualities and personality traits than to a man’s physical appearance.<\/p>\n

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Once you learn\u00a0what these triggers of attraction are, there are endless ways\u00a0you can infuse them into your profile writing, photos, and emails.\u00a0 While\u00a0explaining the science of attraction<\/a> would be a whole separate article (and book!) in itself, here are\u00a05 methods<\/a> that you can instantly implement right now.<\/p>\n

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3.\u00a0 You have not fully optimized your foundation<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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It is critical to understand that online dating goes against our human nature.\u00a0 Humans were not meant to have so many romantic options at the same time.\u00a0 This perception of unlimited options makes it harder for women to make a choice, and consequently, they become\u00a0much\u00a0pickier than they would be in a normal dating atmosphere.<\/p>\n

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For this reason, your foundation (the profile writing and photos you post) must be optimized to absolute perfection.\u00a0\u00a0One misguided photo, one slightly\u00a0unattractive\u00a0picture, or even one sentence in your profile that puts doubt in a woman’s mind, will instantly send her clicking over to the next profile.\u00a0 \u00a0For a list of 15\u00a0red flags that are often unintentional, click here<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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If you want women to respond to your messages online, the foundation must be absolutely flawless and designed to create an emotional response.\u00a0 For some free advice to help you accomplish this, here are 21 of the best online dating photo ideas<\/a>\u00a0or click here for help writing your online dating profile<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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4.\u00a0 Your opening\u00a0is missing the mark<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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The average woman is bombarded with boring emails or creepy sexual comments.\u00a0\u00a0Simply saying hello or attempting to make small talk based on\u00a0a commonality will not be enough to get a woman excited.<\/p>\n

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Now I know what some of you are thinking.\u00a0 You’ve tried\u00a0to write creative emails in the past\u00a0and have had very little luck.\u00a0 Why put in so much effort if there isn’t going to be a huge payoff?<\/p>\n

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But here’s the thing… if you were not receiving responses to your messages on dating sites<\/a>, either something is off with your foundation (the profile writing and photos), or your emails were\u00a0failing to ignite interest.\u00a0 Just like a doctor would attempt to diagnose an illness based on symptoms, you have to do the same thing with your online dating presence and figure out where the problem lies.<\/p>\n

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The best place to start is the profile writing and photos.\u00a0 Reflect honestly to the best of your ability.\u00a0 Did\u00a0your profile writing and photos reach their maximum potential?\u00a0 If and only if the answer to that question is a yes, then you should begin to focus on the fact that your emails might be the reason women aren’t responding.<\/p>\n

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Crafting a profile that is optimized to perfection isn’t easy.\u00a0 Luckily, we can take care of that for you!,\u00a0\u00a0Click here to learn more<\/a> about how we’ve helped over 20,000 customers since 2009.[\/vc_column_text][vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n

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