{"id":5691,"date":"2025-02-19T13:55:27","date_gmt":"2025-02-19T13:55:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/?page_id=5691"},"modified":"2026-03-10T13:57:58","modified_gmt":"2026-03-10T13:57:58","slug":"are-you-the-non-existent-man-on-dating-apps","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/are-you-the-non-existent-man-on-dating-apps\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You The Non-Existent Man On Dating Apps?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Are You The Non-Existent Man On Dating Apps?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:70px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"568\" src=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2024-07-01-at-4.10.54-PM-1024x568.png\" alt=\"The invisible man on dating apps\" class=\"wp-image-5692\" style=\"width:580px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2024-07-01-at-4.10.54-PM-1024x568.png 1024w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2024-07-01-at-4.10.54-PM-300x166.png 300w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2024-07-01-at-4.10.54-PM-768x426.png 768w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2024-07-01-at-4.10.54-PM-1536x852.png 1536w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2024-07-01-at-4.10.54-PM-2048x1136.png 2048w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2024-07-01-at-4.10.54-PM-700x388.png 700w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2024-07-01-at-4.10.54-PM-600x333.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:70px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">The only thing worse than getting rejected on a dating app, is feeling like you don\u2019t even exist. In the world of dating apps, I refer to this as the non-existent man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">The non-existent man absolutely dominates the world of dating apps.&nbsp; These are men who spend hours on hinge, <a href=\"http:\/\/bumble.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">bumble<\/a>, tinder and various other apps every single day, sending out countless messages, only to receive no return on their investment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">No likes.&nbsp; No matches.&nbsp; No dates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Occasionally the non-existent man is able to land a response.&nbsp; But these are typically from women who:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Don\u2019t meet expectations<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Ghost after a message or two<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>But Here\u2019s the Good News<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">If you are like the vast majority of men who fall into the non-existent man category, feeling like <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/are-dating-apps-are-a-waste-of-time\/\">dating apps are a waste of time<\/a>, your issues are easily fixable.&nbsp; There is almost certainly nothing wrong with you.&nbsp; But there is something wrong with your approach to online dating.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Success is simply a matter of putting the right processes into place, and learning how to transform yourself into the type of man that women will want to chase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Truth Be Told, I Was Once The Non-Existent Man<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Since 2009 I\u2019ve often been referred to as the best online dater in the world.&nbsp; But here\u2019s a little secret you might not know\u2026&nbsp; at one point in time I was arguably the <em>worst<\/em> online dater in the world!&nbsp; I was the absolute definition of the non-existent man.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I wasted almost an entire year of my life attempting to meet women online, sending out messages for hours a day, <em>not even landing a single date.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I even resorted to messaging women who I wasn\u2019t the slightest bit attracted to, desperately needing to feel some sort of validation, needing to feel anything less than worthless. But even these women wouldn\u2019t give me the time of day.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It was worse than being rejected.\u00a0 I was completely invisible.\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/am-i-good-looking-enough-for-dating-apps\/\">I was convinced I wasn&#8217;t good looking enough for dating apps<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Online dating left me with a shattered self-esteem and almost unbearable levels of depression.&nbsp; At the time I was convinced that I was going to be alone forever.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:70px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"485\" height=\"423\" src=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/80fd1cf-73b5-bf80-f6f-6e8f221ace_Screen-Shot-2018-05-24-at-12.webp\" alt=\"Joshua Pompey and Wife\" class=\"wp-image-5866\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/80fd1cf-73b5-bf80-f6f-6e8f221ace_Screen-Shot-2018-05-24-at-12.webp 485w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/80fd1cf-73b5-bf80-f6f-6e8f221ace_Screen-Shot-2018-05-24-at-12-300x262.webp 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 485px) 100vw, 485px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:70px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Fast forward to the present, and I\u2019m married to a beautiful woman whom I met online, have two beautiful children, and let\u2019s just say I met an endless stream of beautiful women on the path to eventually settling down into a happy relationship. 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