{"id":6700,"date":"2026-03-10T13:26:17","date_gmt":"2026-03-10T13:26:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/?page_id=6700"},"modified":"2026-03-17T17:04:01","modified_gmt":"2026-03-17T17:04:01","slug":"am-i-good-looking-enough-for-dating-apps","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/am-i-good-looking-enough-for-dating-apps\/","title":{"rendered":"Am I Good Looking Enough For Dating Apps? No, And It\u2019s Your Fault!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Am I Good Looking Enough For Dating Apps? Here\u2019s What You\u2019re Doing Wrong (And How To Fix It)<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>By <a href=\"http:\/\/joshuapompey.com\">Joshua Pompey<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>In this article the world&#8217;s number one <a href=\"http:\/\/tinder.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">dating app<\/a> expert Joshua Pompey examines the common fear, &#8220;Am I good looking enough for dating apps?&#8221;  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"612\" height=\"408\" src=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/istockphoto-1474112607-612x612-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"Am I Good Looking Enough For Dating Apps? No, And It\u2019s Your Fault!\" class=\"wp-image-6702\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/istockphoto-1474112607-612x612-1-1.jpg 612w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/istockphoto-1474112607-612x612-1-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/istockphoto-1474112607-612x612-1-1-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 612px) 100vw, 612px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Countless men who struggle with dating apps eventually find themselves wondering, \u201cAm I good looking enough for dating apps?&#8221; And it&#8217;s fairly easy to understand why.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>When you spend countless hours on dating apps, barely getting any matches, its easy to feel as if the odds are stacked against you. As <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/dating-apps-are-killing-my-self-esteem-how-to-stay-confident\/\">our self esteem drops<\/a>, the natural inclination for many of us is to begin to question whether or not we are good looking enough for dating apps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>But after working in the field of online dating since 2009, I can tell you something most men don\u2019t want to hear:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re struggling on <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/bumble-vs-hinge-which-reigns-supreme-in-2025\/\">dating apps<\/a>, the problem usually isn\u2019t the apps themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s that you haven\u2019t yet positioned yourself as the best possible version of yourself.  In fact, your lack of results may be entirely your fault. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Too many men jump straight to blaming women for being \u201ctoo superficial\u201d or assuming they only want a hot guy with model looks.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>But that argument usually ignores an important truth: dating apps are one giant competition. You may think you&#8217;re doing your best to compete, but are you really?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>What exactly does your version of 100% look like?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Real Question Behind \u201cAm I Good Looking Enough For Dating Apps?\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"540\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/360_F_496889258_jnUB7a0tuzSDrO4apNcKjNX8JyVR3Lyc-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6703\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/360_F_496889258_jnUB7a0tuzSDrO4apNcKjNX8JyVR3Lyc-1.jpg 540w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/360_F_496889258_jnUB7a0tuzSDrO4apNcKjNX8JyVR3Lyc-1-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>When men ask \u201cAm I good looking enough for dating apps?&#8221; what they really are trying to understand is, &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/hinge-photos-arent-getting-likes\/\">why aren&#8217;t women attracted to my profile<\/a>?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>These are two very similar questions, but there is a huge difference between the two.  The genetics you were born with and your ability to attract women are two very different things. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/how-to-attract-women-online\/\">Attraction<\/a> isn\u2019t random.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s real psychology behind it. Women tend to gravitate toward men who project confidence, social value, leadership, and competence. These traits signal that a man is capable, respected, and successful in his environment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Online dating compresses all of those signals into a few photos and a short profile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>So ask yourself something honestly:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>If a woman sees your profile for five seconds, what does it communicate about you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Prior to helping a former client of mine, he would always complain that he just wasn&#8217;t good look enough.  However, after taking a look at his profile, I saw:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Clothes that don\u2019t fit well\/a lack of fashion sense<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Poor grooming<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Outdated and low-quality photos<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Posture that communicated a lack of confidence<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Low energy a lack of presence<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>My client was a good looking guy, but the factors above disabled his ability to attract women on dating apps.  They signaled that he was a low-effort guy, without much drive, and little social awareness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>In real life he was great.  In the dating app world he was a disaster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Women weren&#8217;t rejecting him because they\u2019re shallow. And they might not be rejecting you because they are shallow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019re simply responding to the signals that your profile is sending.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Science of Attraction Isn\u2019t Just About Looks<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" src=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Stock-Photo-Woman-looking-at-cell-phone-04.jpg\" alt=\"The Real Question Behind \u201cAm I Good Looking Enough For Dating Apps?\u201d\" class=\"wp-image-6704\" style=\"width:568px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Stock-Photo-Woman-looking-at-cell-phone-04.jpg 500w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Stock-Photo-Woman-looking-at-cell-phone-04-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>A lot of men hear conversations about attraction and immediately assume that attraction is simply about the looks we are born with. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s rarely the real issue.  Any man can make himself attractive with the right effort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Attraction science consistently shows that women respond strongly to status signals, confidence, and visible self-investment. When a man clearly takes pride in his appearance and lifestyle, it communicates that he values himself\u2014and that other people likely value him as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Think about it this way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>If you see a man wearing well-fitted clothes, standing confidently, and looking physically healthy, you immediately assume certain things about him:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>He\u2019s disciplined in his day to day life<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>He takes care of himself and values his health<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>He has self-respect<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>He likely has an active social life<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>He is more likely to be an alpha than a beta<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Those assumptions happen almost instantly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Dating apps operate the exact same way. Women are constantly making quick judgments based on visual cues that signal confidence and social value.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>This is why two men with similar natural features can have wildly different results online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>One invests in himself and puts forth the effort to communicate that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>The other doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Many Men Struggling With &#8220;Not Being Good Looking Enough&#8221; Haven&#8217;t Put In The Work.&#8221;<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/dating-app-profile-writers-2\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Orange-and-Purple-Fashion-Presentation-1024x576.png\" alt=\"Joshua Pompey profile writers for men\" class=\"wp-image-4766\" style=\"width:568px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Orange-and-Purple-Fashion-Presentation-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Orange-and-Purple-Fashion-Presentation-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Orange-and-Purple-Fashion-Presentation-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Orange-and-Purple-Fashion-Presentation-700x394.png 700w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Orange-and-Purple-Fashion-Presentation-539x303.png 539w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/Orange-and-Purple-Fashion-Presentation.png 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s the uncomfortable truth many men avoid when asking \u201cAm I good looking enough for dating apps?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Most men simply haven\u2019t put in the work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>They upload a few random <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/how-many-photos-should-i-post-on-dating-apps\/\">photos<\/a> with a half-ass effort, write a rushed bio, and hope things magically work out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Some men do actually put in the work, but only on the first attempt.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>When they don&#8217;t receive matches, instead of making adjustments, working harder at their photos, and trying to diagnose what the issue is, they shift the blame to women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Imagine <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/about-us\/\">if I had did this<\/a>?  I wouldn&#8217;t have my beautiful wife right now, my two kids, my career, and tens of thousands of people would have never received my help because when I first tried online dating, I fell flat on my face.  I had to put a ton of work in before I mastered dating apps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>In addition, most men out there are trying to attract extremely beautiful women that are putting serious effort into their appearance, their photos, and their presentation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019re working out.<br>They\u2019re styling their hair<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They&#8217;re putting on makeup<br>They\u2019re choosing flattering outfits<br>They\u2019re taking <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/what-types-of-photos-get-the-most-likes-on-hinge\/\">photos that highlight their best features<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Then some men look at those same women and say, <em>\u201cWomen only care about looks.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>If these women have invested significant time and energy in their appearance, and you aren&#8217;t putting in much work, you can&#8217;t question their superficiality.   You get what you work for in this world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Why should they want to date or <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/matching-on-hinge-but-getting-no-replies\/\">match<\/a> with someone who hasn\u2019t done the same?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Attraction doesn&#8217;t emerge from entitlement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes it requires hard work.  And sometimes it requires A LOT of hard work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Fitness Matters So Stop Making Excuses<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/premium_photo-1733328015522-c497d190f74b-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Am I good Looking enough for online dating? Fitness Matters \" class=\"wp-image-6705\" style=\"width:568px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/premium_photo-1733328015522-c497d190f74b-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/premium_photo-1733328015522-c497d190f74b-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/premium_photo-1733328015522-c497d190f74b-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/premium_photo-1733328015522-c497d190f74b-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/premium_photo-1733328015522-c497d190f74b-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/premium_photo-1733328015522-c497d190f74b-700x467.jpg 700w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/wp-content\/uploads\/premium_photo-1733328015522-c497d190f74b-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>If there\u2019s one topic that quickly exposes a lot men, it\u2019s fitness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Many men say they want to match with beautiful women who are in great shape. Women who clearly invest time into their health and appearance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>But when it comes time to put in the work themselves and that extra 15 pounds they&#8217;re carrying, the excuses start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t have time for the gym.\u201d<br>\u201cI\u2019m just naturally bigger.\u201d<br>\u201cI\u2019ll start working out later.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I just have a different metabolism&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>The reality is that <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/look-good-feel-great-match-better\/\">physical fitness<\/a> communicates far more than just appearance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>When you\u2019re in good shape, it signals:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Discipline<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Consistency<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Energy<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Confidence<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Self-respect<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>These are extremely attractive qualities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I had a client who lost 30 pounds after working with me, then put a ton of effort into his photos, and his results when absolutely through the roof.  More dates than he had time for.  He not only looked better, but his confidence went through the roof and he felt better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>And yet many men expect to attract women who prioritize their looks while refusing to make that same commitment themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re 15, 20, 25 pounds overweight, wearing baggy clothes, and presenting low-energy photos on your profile, what message are you sending?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not just only about how you look. It\u2019s also about what your lifestyle communicates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>You want a woman with model looks?  Earn it.  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