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Social value is a quality that women are instinctively attracted to. \u00a0To put it simply, having social value\u00a0implies that you have value in society.<\/p>\n
One of the best ways to demonstrate social value is to show that you have an active social life and other people enjoy being around you. \u00a0This can easily be implemented\u00a0at the end of all your initial emails.<\/p>\n
Let’s suppose\u00a0I just started a conversation online that is funny, engaging, and an all\u00a0around solid effort. \u00a0Now it’s time to end the email. \u00a0I want to use this as an opportunity to display the social value that I just mentioned. \u00a0The ending of my email might look something along the lines of:<\/p>\n
“Anyway, I’m about meet up with friends for a little birthday gathering so I have to\u00a0run, but looking forward to hearing from you. \u00a0Talk to you soon. \u00a0Night!”<\/p>\n
Adding this ending to all my emails comes across as very natural and subtly implies that I have an active<\/a> social life, places to go, and people to see, which are all\u00a0positives that demonstrate social value.<\/p>\n Even if am really just sitting on the couch, ending every email saying I’m meeting up with friends is very beneficial towards my end goal.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Let’s go back to\u00a0previous example mentioned in tip 3. \u00a0 In that example, I show a whole lot of confidence when I end my email with, “looking forward to hearing from you.”<\/p>\n Phrasing my language in this manner communicates\u00a0that I know<\/em> she will write me back and expect it, which is a lot different from saying, “hope to hear from you.” \u00a0I am very subtly creating demand for myself through the words that I use.<\/p>\n In the online dating world, every choice you make with the words you implement\u00a0can have a big effect on how you are perceived.<\/p>\n Another example could be using her profile as a tool to create demand. \u00a0Suppose she has a very short profile that is only 3 sentences total. \u00a0I could say something along the lines of, “Come on now, I know you are cute and all, but why the super short profile? \u00a0How are you going to win over the best guys like me with that… ; ) ”<\/p>\n Then I could follow that line up with something that shows I am teasing her, along with a follow up question, such as, “So tell me, since your profile doesn’t say all that much about you, if you could ditch work tomorrow and do anything, what would it be? \u00a0I may just have to join you if it’s something good…”<\/p>\n All of this creates demand for myself and shows\u00a0plenty of confidence as well.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Speaking of creating demand, the guys who are always in the\u00a0most\u00a0<\/em>demand, are guys that are funny. Learning how to start conversations online that make women laugh will light a fire under your response rate.<\/p>\n The best type of humor to use in an opening email is humor that playfully teases the woman you are attempting to win over, while simultaneously\u00a0demonstrating confidence and likable qualities.<\/p>\n Let’s say I was messaging a much older woman who is 45 and for arguments sake, let’s pretend I was 30.<\/p>\n I might say something along the lines of, \u00a0“So here\u2019s the thing.\u00a0 <\/span>I know your profile says you are looking for a man between the ages of 42 and 52, and I\u2019m only 32, but I\u2019m thinking with my extra charm, wit (and handsome good looks?), we can add at least an extra 10 years to my age.\u00a0 <\/span>We should probably talk no?”<\/span><\/p>\n This has been proven to be enormously successful with clients of mine seeking older women and is just one of the countless ways that humor can be implemented online. \u00a0This line along with dozens of others can be found in The Joshua Pompey Process, Course 6<\/a>.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Let’s go back to the previous example of hitting on older women. \u00a0This type of original thinking separates you from the hundreds of other younger guys who approached these older women in boring and uninspired ways. \u00a0It’s different, unique, and fun.<\/p>\n This type of approach needs to be taken with all women, regardless of age or background. \u00a0The good news is, once you have a bunch of openers that are proven to work at your disposal, you can use them again and again.<\/p>\n I have openers that come across as completely unique for doctors, lawyers, artists, younger women, etc. \u00a0At the end of the day, almost every beautiful girl I ever went on a date with at some point told me, your email was unique and funny which is why I responded. \u00a0That’s what it’s all about. \u00a0Show you are different.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n People are busy these days. \u00a0Especially beautiful women. \u00a0And the online dating overload that beautiful women often face makes it very unlikely that you will receive a response unless you simplify the process as much as possible.<\/p>\n Your email should take no more than 30 seconds to read. \u00a0Should take no more than 30 seconds to respond to. \u00a0And should end with a question that is interesting to her, but doesn’t require\u00a0too much<\/em> thinking.<\/p>\n Your best bet is to find whatever it is that she is most passionate about in her profile, since everybody’s favorite subject is themselves. \u00a0If you could find something she is passionate about that you also share a passion for, even better.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n With my course series, The Joshua Pompey Process, you will find all the best material in the world put together in one amazing series. \u00a0This includes my formula for writing emails, all the best routines in the world, and plenty more. \u00a0Click here to learn more<\/a><\/p>\n <\/p>\n2. \u00a0Create demand for yourself when starting conversations online<\/strong><\/h3>\n
3. Start conversations online that infuse plenty of humor<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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5. \u00a0Simplify the process of responding<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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