{"id":1901,"date":"2019-07-18T19:23:31","date_gmt":"2019-07-18T19:23:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/women\/?page_id=1901"},"modified":"2025-03-23T16:37:37","modified_gmt":"2025-03-23T16:37:37","slug":"online-dating-success-story","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/women\/online-dating-success-story\/","title":{"rendered":"Online Dating Success Story"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row row_type=&#8221;row&#8221; use_row_as_full_screen_section=&#8221;no&#8221; type=&#8221;full_width&#8221; angled_section=&#8221;no&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; background_image_as_pattern=&#8221;without_pattern&#8221; css_animation=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h1><strong>The Online Dating Wheel Of Roulette:\u00a0The Key To Becoming An Online Dating Success Story<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8221;transparent&#8221; up=&#8221;10&#8243; down=&#8221;10&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>By Joshua Pompey<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8221;transparent&#8221; up=&#8221;10&#8243; down=&#8221;10&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p><em>In this article you will learn the key to developing the right mentality and becoming an online dating success story of your own.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_separator type=&#8221;transparent&#8221; up=&#8221;20&#8243; down=&#8221;20&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1905\" src=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/WomanLookingAtLaptop.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"401\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/WomanLookingAtLaptop.jpg 650w, https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/women\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/WomanLookingAtLaptop-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/>[\/vc_column_text][vc_separator type=&#8221;transparent&#8221; up=&#8221;20&#8243; down=&#8221;20&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<p>Are you are absolutely exhausted from online dating?\u00a0\u00a0Perhaps you are wondering how anybody ever becomes a success story?\u00a0 I may be a guy, but after working with thousands of women, believe me, I get it!\u00a0 I apologize on behalf of the male gender!<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8221;transparent&#8221; up=&#8221;10&#8243; down=&#8221;10&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>Between the creepy profiles, the offensive emails, and that borderline serial killer you accidentally met up with for drinks last week, you\u2019re probably one date away from throwing in the towel right?<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8221;transparent&#8221; up=&#8221;10&#8243; down=&#8221;10&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t go jumping off that ledge yet. I assure you, there\u2019s plenty of hope. Just look at how many people all over the world are in relationships from dating sites.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8221;transparent&#8221; up=&#8221;10&#8243; down=&#8221;10&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s use the analogy of a roulette wheel.\u00a0 Theoretically the odds of black and red coming up are 50\/50.\u00a0 But as we know, that statistical variance is only validated over the course of thousands of spins.\u00a0 In the short term, you might see black come up 25 out of 30 spins.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8221;transparent&#8221; up=&#8221;10&#8243; down=&#8221;10&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>Now let&#8217;s apply that to online dating.\u00a0 Let&#8217;s assume that a black spin represents a boring date, a creepy date, a date you aren&#8217;t attracted to, or an absolute date from hell.\u00a0 Let&#8217;s also assume the a red spin represents a fun date, an interesting date, or a date you find attractive.<\/p>\n<p>[vc_separator type=&#8221;transparent&#8221; up=&#8221;10&#8243; down=&#8221;10&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>There might be times where you spin seven blacks in a row (bad dates) followed by 2 reds (good dates), followed by another 3 blacks.\u00a0 Other times you might have a whole lot of reds in a row, but they aren&#8217;t quite &#8220;the one&#8221; 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