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If you are looking for online dating profile help, look no further.\u00a0 Having supervised the creation of over 20,000 profiles, it’s safe to say I probably know more about dating profiles than any man should ever know!<\/p>\n
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With over ten years worth of knowledge at my disposal, today I’d like to share some of my best online dating profile tips for attracting high quality men online.\u00a0 Ready?\u00a0 Let’s get to work!
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It’s critical to understand that men are extremely visual.\u00a0 Upon seeing you online, the first thing men will do is click on your photos.\u00a0 If there is even one weak link in your photos, or if they fail to spark attraction, men aren’t going to read your profile.<\/p>\n
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This doesn’t mean that the profile writing and the emails aren’t important.\u00a0 Quality men care A LOT about these as well.\u00a0 But they will never get to that point if\u00a0your photo gallery isn’t optimized to spark attraction and build interest.<\/p>\n
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Hiring a photographer<\/a> is probably the last thing you want to put on your to do list with all that you have going on.\u00a0 But here’s the thing… I have over ten years of data showing that professional photos combined with amateur photos, are significantly more effective.\u00a0\u00a0Every photo gallery needs a\u00a0“best version of yourself” photo, and\u00a0hiring a pro is the best way to make this happen.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n With that said, you don’t have to break the bank to hire a photographer\u00a0(spending 100 to 300 dollars\u00a0is more than sufficient).\u00a0 And if\u00a0you need a little help finding a great photographer, I\u00a0 highly recommend using\u00a0flytographer.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n The best photo galleries combine professional photos with great photos\u00a0that you already have (or acquire) in order to reveal different aspects of your personality.\u00a0 Think of each photo you post as a story about what it would be like to date you.\u00a0 Which stories would you want to tell most?<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Would it be the stories of your adventurous side (i.e., vacation, skydiving, road trips)?\u00a0 \u00a0Your nurturing side (i.e., family, friends, cooking)?\u00a0 Your athletic side (i.e., running, hiking, cycling)?\u00a0 The more stories you tell in your photo gallery, the more intriguing\u00a0you will appear to quality men.\u00a0 In addition, this will create more opportunities for men to find\u00a0commonalities\u00a0that they can connect with.\u00a0 \u00a0So dig through all your photos and see what you can come up with!\u00a0 If you need some picture taking ideas, click here<\/a><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Once again, the more opportunities you give men to find commonalities with, the more likely men will want to connect with you.\u00a0 In addition, you will appear more interesting and fun!\u00a0 Combining a diverse photo gallery with\u00a0dynamic profile writing is the ultimate 1-2 combination.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n To learn about the 5 best hinge photos for women<\/a> – click here<\/a><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n The second a man questions anything about your profile, he will just play it safe and move on to the next one.\u00a0 Why take the risk when there are so many other women on dating sites?\u00a0 Especially when a quality man has much more options than the average man.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n A questionable photo is any photo that makes a man question everything he has seen prior to that photo.\u00a0\u00a0In some cases, it’s\u00a0a photo that is significantly less attractive than\u00a0the others.\u00a0 In other cases, it’s a photo taken at a strange angle, causing a man to question if you are hiding something.\u00a0 Whatever the case may be, it’s critical to leave zero\u00a0questions\u00a0as to who you really are or what you really look like.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n With so much competition online, the window to ignite a man’s interest\u00a0is extremely small.\u00a0 For this reason, it is imperative to\u00a0begin your profile with something that will instantly grab a man’s attention. The hook can be a joke, an anecdote, something ironic, starting off by emphasizing your absolute most attractive qualities, etc..\u00a0 Whatever path you choose, just remember, the first couple of lines should be your strongest!<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n I know, that sounds narcissistic right?\u00a0 But here’s the thing… guys aren’t reading your profile to find out if they are what you are looking for<\/em>.\u00a0 They are trying to see if YOU are what THEY are looking for.<\/em><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Every\u00a0word of your profile should be focused on marketing why a man should be interested in you, not the other way around.\u00a0 If you do this properly, the qualities you are looking for in a man will be implicit<\/em>, without actually having to say them.\u00a0 For example, if you paint the picture of a worldly, active, and compassionate woman, it will go without saying that these are the qualities you want in a partner as well.\u00a0 \u00a0There is no need to waste space and words with these declarations.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n You could have the greatest profile in the world, but if it’s not formatted in a manner that is easy on the eyes, nobody will read it.\u00a0 \u00a0See how this profile is written?\u00a0 Your profile should follow a similar pattern.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n All paragraphs should be\u00a0a maximum of three sentences, with each paragraph focusing on a different aspect of your life.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Excitement is contagious.\u00a0 When quality men see a profile\u00a0that paints the picture of a woman filled with enthusiasm and excitement, they get excited as well.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n One of the worst mistakes I continually see is woman declaring in their profiles, “I’m not sure if online dating is for me,” or expressing that they are hesitant about meeting men online.\u00a0 \u00a0Those types of statements don’t exactly get men lining up with excitement to\u00a0message you!\u00a0 To learn how to start conversations with men online<\/a>\u00a0without looking desperate click here<\/a><\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n When you write, make sure you sound like you!\u00a0 Have fun with it.\u00a0 Be playful.\u00a0 Show your unique voice.\u00a0 A lot women tend to revert back to their high school or college days, writing profiles that sound more like essays.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n While it’s important to have correct spelling and grammar, as these are indicators of intelligence, that doesn’t have to come at the expense of taking the process too seriously.\u00a0 It’s okay to write in a manner that breaks a few conventions here and there and sounds more like a conversation.\u00a0 I promise, nobody will grade it!<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n While you might claim to be a funny, confident, and easy-going woman, there are another 500 profiles one click away that are all claiming the same thing.\u00a0 Instead of telling men what you are, show them.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n If you are funny and playful, write something funny and playful in your profile.\u00a0 If you are confident, show this by using language that allows your confidence to ooze off the page.\u00a0 If you are easy-going, mention an anecdote or an aspect of your personality that communicates this.\u00a0 \u00a0The more you show and the less you tell, the more effective your profile will be.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n While we want to highlight our best selves, we also don’t want to come across as if we are trying too hard.\u00a0 It should never feel as if we are trying\u00a0too hard to impress.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n One great way to do this is\u00a0to use what I refer to as, “the humblebrag.”\u00a0 This is the notion of balancing out something that might be perceived as bragging, with something that pokes fun at yourself.\u00a0 For example, “I run a business with a team of 15 employees, yet somehow, can barely manage to cook dinner without blowing up my kitchen!\u00a0 Hope you like takeout! \ud83d\ude42 ”<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n The idea is to balance a great aspect of your life with a little humility,\u00a0in order to maintain that down to earth vibe.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n You might\u00a0rival the talents of Shakespeare himself, but if your profile is too long, nobody will read it.\u00a0 You must be economical with your words by saying a lot, in the least amount of space.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n For example, “I’m easily excited by just about anything outdoors (hiking, cycling, beaches) but can just as easily kick back and relax with the best of them (Netflix<\/a>, reading, cooking).”\u00a0 In an ideal profile we would have much more fun with the phrasing of these interests and would be a little less cliche, but this is an example<\/a>\u00a0of how you can demonstrate many interests in a small amount of words.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n There is a difference between saying, “I need a man who is x, y, and z,”\u00a0 versus, “I’m here to meet someone who is x, y, and z.”\u00a0 That one subtle swap (“need to” versus “here to”) turns a woman\u00a0who appears needy and demanding, into a woman who is confident\u00a0and knows what\u00a0she is looking for.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Another example of this would be reversing, “I hope to meet someone who is x, y, and z” to “the right person for me would be x, y, and z.”\u00a0\u00a0The smallest changes can make all the difference in how confident you appear.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Banner blindness is the notion that when we see ads on computer screens, we don’t even notice them.\u00a0 Why?\u00a0 Because we are so used to spammy ads\u00a0all over our websites that they\u00a0don’t even register.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n The same phenomenon is prevalent with online dating profiles.\u00a0 With an endless stream of cliche sounding profiles, quality men develop banner blindness towards profiles that don’t stand out from the crowd.\u00a0 It is imperative that you highlight your best qualities in ways that disrupt the pattern and avoid cliches.<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=’transparent’ position=’center’ color=” thickness=” up=’10’ down=’10’]<\/p>\n Accomplishing this will be different for each individual.\u00a0 Some of you might be able to do so by painting the picture of an extraordinarily adventurous woman, while some of you night have positive energy that is so contagious, men will instantly feel excited at the prospect of talking to you.\u00a0\u00a0 Whatever path you take (and the ways you can go about this are only limited to your imagination), you simply MUST avoid appearing cliche and find a way to stand out!<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n [vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″]<\/p>\n Our professionals have been providing online dating profile help to women since 2009.\u00a0 With over 20,000 customers and a success rate of over 99%, we are the best reviewed<\/a> and most successful in the industry!\u00a0 Click here to learn more now!<\/a>[\/vc_column_text][vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n [\/vc_column_text][vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column]3.\u00a0 Tell A Diverse Story With Your Photos<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4.\u00a0 The Profile Writing Should Match the Diversity of the Photos<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/h3>\n5.\u00a0 Make sure you have zero “questionable photos.”<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n6.\u00a0 Have a strong hook<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n8.\u00a0 Presentation is Key<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n9.\u00a0 Get excited!\u00a0 And if you aren’t, fake it!<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n10.\u00a0 Show some personality.\u00a0 This isn’t an essay!<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n11.\u00a0 Don’t tell men what you’re like, show them through your writing<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/a><\/p>\n12.\u00a0 Try implementing the “humblebrag.”<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n13.\u00a0\u00a0Sometimes less is more<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n14.\u00a0 Use confident language<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n15.\u00a0\u00a0Avoid banner blindness<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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