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7 Ways\u00a0To Write First Emails That Attract The\u00a0Successful & Well-Rounded Professional<\/h1>\n

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By Joshua Pompey<\/p>\n

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In this article you will earn how to write online dating first emails that will attract even the most successful and well-rounded professionals.[\/vc_column_text][vc_separator type=”transparent” up=”20″ down=”20″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern” css_animation=””][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n

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He’s interesting. \u00a0He’s well-rounded. \u00a0And dammit if\u00a0he isn’t handsome. \u00a0That Joshua Pompey<\/a> sure is dreamy huh? \u00a0Oh… Umm… You were thinking of the guy you saw online this morning… This is so embarrassing.<\/p>\n

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Well, nonetheless, suppose you saw this all around great guy online. \u00a0In order to get his attention, you will need to learn how to write first emails that break through the noise and ignite instant interest. \u00a0Let’s take a look at a few emailing tips that will help you make this happen.<\/p>\n

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The 2 minute rule<\/strong><\/p>\n

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No, I’m not referring to the amount of time it usually takes for me to blow up my kitchen when I attempt to cook a pop tart. \u00a0I’m referring to the time it takes for a man to read and respond to your first email.<\/p>\n

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As a rule of thumb, the more successful and well-rounded a man is, the less time he probably has to log onto a dating site<\/a> and answer emails. \u00a0So make sure your opening emails\u00a0take no longer than 30 seconds to read, and less than 90 seconds to respond to. \u00a0The perfect online dating first email is highly engaging and unique, but accomplishes these goals in a very efficient manner.<\/p>\n

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Avoid questions that require too much thinking\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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You want your questions to be interesting, but you don’t want them to frustrate your audience. \u00a0For example, asking a man what the most exciting thing he’s ever done might sound a fun question in theory, but in reality, it requires him to scan his entire life for an answer, and also puts a lot of pressure on him to come up with an interesting response.<\/p>\n

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An example of a better question might be, “You seem to have some really exciting profile pictures. \u00a0Here’s a fun question. \u00a0If you could check one exciting thing off your bucket list this coming year, what would it be and why? \u00a0If you say sky-diving, I may\u00a0just have to join you… :)”<\/p>\n

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Focus on a commonality in your first email<\/strong><\/p>\n

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A well rounded man is going to have a lot of passions and interests. \u00a0Try to find ways to connect with them in your opening message. \u00a0The more you establish right off the bat that you are a person he could share a future bond with, the more interest you will naturally ignite.<\/p>\n

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Flirt a little bit<\/strong><\/p>\n

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<\/a>If you were to meet\u00a0a guy you liked in person, odds are you would flirt with him a little bit. \u00a0You might smile, tease him, and playfully touch his arm.<\/p>\n

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Well in the online world, all we have is our words to communicate. \u00a0Don’t be afraid to have a little fun with a man\u00a0and flirt the same way you would in person. \u00a0Emoticons and exclamation points are the easiest way to establish a playful and flirtatious tone.<\/p>\n

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“Awww. \u00a0Didn’t anybody ever tell you that the Met’s are never going to win a World Series? \u00a0I feel so bad… If you want, you are always welcome to join the winners over here on the Yankees side… \u00a0Lol. \u00a0Sorry, I couldn’t resist. \u00a0Life long Yankee fan here! \u00a0So do you hate Yankee fans as much as most Met fans? \u00a0We could talk but this might be doomed to fail… ; )”<\/p>\n

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Always choose words that reveal confidence<\/strong><\/p>\n

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The other day a coaching client<\/a>\u00a0of mine received an email that ended with the following statements, “This is new for me as I’m figuring the whole online thing out, so what the hell. \u00a0I’m cool with the texting, but I’ll wait to see if you even want to talk first. Hope to hear from you I guess?” \u00a0This example shows a lack of confidence on every level.<\/p>\n

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Statements such as “if you even want to talk” or “hope to hear from you,” give up all power and create the image of someone who is just sitting around, hoping<\/em> that she will receive a response. \u00a0This is a huge turn off to a man.<\/p>\n

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A better way to end an opening email would be, “Well I have to run. \u00a0I’m off to a yoga class than heading out to meet up with some friends. \u00a0Enjoy your night and I’ll talk to you soon!”<\/p>\n

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This language not only shows confidence that the writer will receive a response, but it also communicates an active social life and the desire to take care of her body, which are also\u00a0attractive qualities.<\/p>\n

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Do not try to win a man over with flattery<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Think about the last time a man approached you online by telling you how beautiful you were, or how amazing you seem. \u00a0You may have felt good for the moment, but it didn’t make you attracted to that person. \u00a0In fact, it probably made you think he was trying too hard or was desperate.<\/p>\n

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Don’t create the same image for yourself. \u00a0On some level, all men love the thrill of a chase. \u00a0Don’t make them chase too<\/em> hard, but at the same time, don’t lay all your cards on the table\u00a0and shower them\u00a0with flattery the second you\u00a0send your first email.<\/p>\n

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Avoid small talk and be interesting<\/strong><\/p>\n

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If you want a guy to be interested, you have to actually be interesting in your opening email<\/em>. \u00a0Avoid asking the same questions that they have already been asked countless\u00a0times. Instead, focus on questions that are unique, playful, and fun.<\/p>\n

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Need a little help with your emailing?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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