Are You Invisible On Dating Apps?

Are You Invisible On Dating Apps? Here’s Why

By Joshua Pompey

Are you feeling invisible on dating apps?

Do dating apps feel like a complete waste of time? If so, you are not alone!

If you’ve ever spent hours on dating apps sending messages… and received nothing back, you know the sinking feeling of being completely ignored. I call this being the “Non-Existent Man.”

The non-existent man isn’t bad-looking, lazy, or unworthy of attention—he just hasn’t cracked the code of online attraction. He sends countless messages, scrolls endlessly, and sometimes even gets a response… only to be ghosted immediately or stuck in meaningless conversations.

I know this pain personally. Back in 2009, I was arguably the worst online dater in the world. I spent almost a year pouring time into messaging women I wasn’t even attracted to, desperately seeking validation. I didn’t just get rejected—I was invisible. My self-esteem was shattered, and I genuinely thought I’d be alone forever.

Fast forward to today, and everything has changed. I met my wife on a dating app, have two wonderful children, and along the way, I’ve helped countless men learn the exact systems that transformed me from invisible to irresistible. And the truth is, if you feel invisible now, it’s not you—it’s your approach.

Here’s the good news: you can fix it. Online dating success comes down to one simple thing—putting the right processes into place.

Once you learn how to optimize your profile, photos (click here to learn why your hinge photos aren’t getting likes), and messaging, you’ll stop competing with everyone else and start standing out.

Think of dating apps like a 3-legged stool. If even one leg—your photos, your profile, or your messages—is weak, the whole thing collapses. But if you strengthen all three, you become unmissable.

Continue browsing through this website and I will teach you how to:

  • Craft a profile that instantly grabs attention.
  • Create a magnetic and irresistible photo gallery
  • Use your competition as fuel, not a roadblock.

Your Challenge This Week: Take a hard look at your dating profile. Are you completely invisible, or are you showing up in ways that make women want to engage? If you lean towards being invisible, your challenge is to look yourself in the mirror and start journaling what you think you can do in you own personal life to make improvements.

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In the next article, we’ll break down the 3-legged stool of online dating and show you exactly where most men fail—and how you can dominate every leg.

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