Online Dating Rejection

How to Overcome Feelings of Online Dating Rejection


By Joshua Pompey


Feelings of online dating rejection can be one of the worst experiences a person have.  But it doesn’t have to be this way.   If your self-esteem has taken a hit since you started online dating, be sure to read this important article.



I may be known as one of the best online dating experts in the world today, but I’ll never forget my first couple months of online dating.  During those first few months I couldn’t get a single woman to respond to my emails.


I had no clue what I was doing and tried just about everything I could think of.  With each day that passed, I got more and more depressed.  But during the height of my rejection, I remember writing one email in particular that truly defined my hopelessness.


In the email I explained to a woman that I knew she probably wouldn’t respond, but that I just wanted to let her know that any guy would be lucky to date her.  Think about that.  I was so convinced that I was a failure that I rejected myself before she could even reject me.  Talk about defense mechanisms going into full gear!


She responded out of pity to thank me for the kind words, but she had zero interest in getting to know me.  How sad is that?  After 3 months of online dating rejection, my only response was pure pity.   I left online dating feeling broken, empty, and hopeless.


So what do you when online dating rejection shatters your self esteem?


When this happens, it’s easy to write off online dating as a shallow medium that only rewards the best looking guys.  But what I need you to understand is that this is not true.


There was once a time where I blamed everyone and everything for my shortcomings online.  Women are shallow.  Women only care about money. Women only like assholes.  These were the lies I told myself.  But they weren’t true.  They were excuses.


It’s been nearly a decade and men of all ages and backgrounds have founds success through my teachings.  My turnaround was not some rare anomaly.  It was about understanding the medium of online dating and learning how to make the right adjustments.


So if you are feeling down from online dating, the first step towards feeling better is to understand that all your problems are completely fixable.  Let’s take at how you can overcome online dating rejection and get on the right path to online dating success.


Take a breather


If you’ve been experiencing online dating rejection, this means online dating sites have been a symbol of frustration and negativity for you over the past few months.  So take a breather.  Distance yourself from this environment the same way you would remove yourself from a bad relationship.  Eventually the bitterness and negativity will fade and you will be able to return with a completely new attitude.


Work on your mental health


Online dating rejection can shatter your self esteem.  It’s your job to build it back up.  Before you return to online dating, work on yourself as much as possible.  Work out more.  Take on new hobbies.  Read a few inspiring books.


Whatever it is you need to do to get your mental health in order, take care of that.  No matter how down you feel right now from online dating rejection, I can assure you that you will feel drastically better once you start making improvements to yourself.


Thoroughly educate yourself about online dating


When I first struggled with online dating in 2008 it far from mainstream.  Not many people were writing online dating tips for men so I had to figure everything out on my own.  Luckily for all you men out there, there is now an abundance of knowledge available and free advice all over the Internet.


Every single article and book I write comes with nearly a decades worth of experience in the field and helping others.  I give away endless amounts of information for free, so take advantage and read up.  You can’t succeed at online dating if you don’t have the tools for success.


For plenty of free online dating advice that will get you started on the right path, just click here.


Go back and self-reflect


Once you have enough knowledge on how to succeed with online dating, pin point why you weren’t succeeding the first time around.  Were you too nice?  Were you using the wrong language? Did your visual story need improvement?


The definition of insanity is repeating the same mistakes over and over and expecting a different result.  Figure out why you were failing the first time and make the right adjustments to avoid any possibility of online dating rejection going forward.


Start laying the foundation that will help you avoid online dating rejection going forward


Once you have the knowledge it’s time to lay down the foundation for your success.  The two most important components of this are the written portion of your profile and the visual story you tell.


You have two options here.  You can take all that knowledge you’ve been acquiring on this website and tackle it head on, or you can hire a professional profile writer and allow the experts to take care of it for you.  Either way, make sure the foundation you lay is correctly built or the whole operation will crumble.


For 7 profile writing tips that will instantly boost your results, read this free article on how to write an online dating profile.


Get out there and begin your re-birth


If you properly educated yourself and laid the right foundation, you will see your inbox fill up fast and furiously when you get back out there and online dating rejection will soon feel like a memory of the distant past.  When it does, please share your story with me.  I’d love to hear about it.


Need some extra help getting started?

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